Q:do you think it's unhealthy to break up and get back together with a person?

Anonymous

Great question! Depends on what you mean by “break up” and “get back together”. What does the activity look like in (and out of) the relationship? 

Beyond that, emotionally it can be irresponsible to jump in and jump out of relationships. It’s important to keep the idea of committment in mind. Just have to make a choice! :)

Q:Ok, I guess maybe I know the answer to this question, but I will ask anyway. Some guys say that the strip club is purely entertainment and that's why they love to go. Is it ok for me not be okay with my guy going to the strip club for "entertainment?" Should I be offended if he wants me to go with him?

Anonymous

Tough, but good question. So, the guys that would justify the strip club are likely hardcore porn addicts that see women as objects (for another post). Women aren’t simply shapes, they are human beings and creations of God.

Now, we could go into all the stats and figures about the average background of women that end up becoming strippers, the often “progression” to prostitution and obvious cycle of abuse that creates— but this is not that kind of medium. I would refer you to xxxchurch.com — they have great stuff on the psychology of strip clubs and other pornographic subject areas.

Going into your question— the fact that “your guy” wants you to engage with him in lusting over (more than likely) endangered, abused women is a huge issue. He likely has no respect for women or you. You should not only be offended, but should leave him. He needs some Godly older men to rebuke and show Him true love (Jesus).  

Q:being married but I'm speaking more from an emotional standpoint. So for me, it's important that we work through things together. I do believe that you can get married immaturely. That's just my two cents.

Anonymous

I surely see your perspective. Wise council should be taken on all matters, especially marriage!